Often TG fiction features characters who go to great lengths to establish that they are transsexual. They go through a huge amount of angst to prove, or at least to assert, that they are NOT GAY, and/or NOT A TRANSVESTITE.
Can anyone tell me why that is such a frequent theme?
We used a term in Catholic school to describe zealots. That was “holier than thou”. It seems sometimes that some authors want to express a “trannier than thou” attitude.
Erin has agreed to post my new story, The Girl Who Saved Aunt T’s, in Hatbox. Hatbox is one of the ways you can support this site. Make a contribution to Hatbox and Erin will send you a password allowing you access to a group of stories that have been set aside for this purpose.
After reading Erin's story and the comments my thoughts centered on the musical Lil Abner.
The lyrics to one of the songs are as poignant today as they were sixty years ago.
The Country's in the Very Best of Hands – Li'l Abner and Marryin' Sam
Them city folks and we-uns
Are pretty much alike
Though they ain't used to living in the sticks
We don't like stone or cement
But we is in agreement
When we get started talking politics
Last week I attended a large sales meeting. I had to hang my overcoat on the back of my chair. During the meeting, the person next to me rolled his chair over part of my coat and ripped it.
My grandmother often warned against "getting the big head."
She believed in humility and, of course, she was right.
Damned if I didn't go against her sage advice -- and grew a melon of above average size.
I've been able to order extra large wigs from Paula Young in the past, put they seemingly have stopped making them.
The searches I've made for extra large wigs have brought me to sketchy sites that appear to be selling poor quality products to desperate people for exorbitant prices.
According to Erin’s numbers about 8,000 unique visitors a day read at least one story on BC.
I’m going to assume that many, many BC users are frequent users and will guess that about 25,000 people read five to ten stories a month.
Those 25,000 readers are enjoying an immense service. About 1-3% of those are authors who also have the satisfaction of a great place to post their fiction.
I was watching the news last night on the local FOX affiliated station. Much to my surprise they were interviewing my cardiologist. He was explaining “broken heart syndrome” in connection with Debbie Reynolds' death.
Not too many years ago he had given me the same explanation. We were in his office going over my medical history, including my family’s health.
I had told him that my father had died in his sleep from a surprise heart attack. Less than a week later, my mother, who had not displayed any heart problems, died from a “heart attack.”
I had a few moments and downloaded a few books from Amazon.
It was a frustrating experience. Only one of the about dozen TG books I bought had a BC author. Her book was excellent. The others ranged from poor to really poor.
In 1849, it was written in the Polite Manual for Young Ladies:
“Novel-reading strengthens the passions, weakens the virtue, and diminishes the power of self-control. Multitudes may date their ruin from the commencement of this kind of reading; and many more, who have been rescued from the snare, will regret, to the end of their days, its influence on the early formation of their character. It is, too, a great waste of time. . .If you wish to become weak-headed, nervous, and good for nothing, read novels."
From time to time Big Closet writers become upset by comments -- or even lack of comments.
I just read about Angharad’s decision to cease writing for BC. She has been worn down by what she considers to be negative remarks. What’s negative and what isn’t, is her decision . . . as is how she reacts.
She has proven her character through her diligence to her craft. BC would be a much different place without her involvement. I hope she reconsiders and keeps writing for BC.
I've just completed a draft of a new story for Hatbox called "Aunt T's" and need beta readers.
The story involves the semi forced feminization of a late thirties male.
I need an unsullied eye to find those inconsistencies that invariably happen.
I don't get any of the Hatbox revenue . . . so consider any help you give me an ultimate gift to Erin. Hatbox usually attracts more subscriptions when new material is offered.
This story is a bit dark . . . but travels toward the sun.
Yesterday I read Melanie's recent great story, which is a worthy addition to her wonderful library of work. After reading it I read the comments and became incensed by remarks that seemed to condone the character's suicide decision because of the bullying she'd experienced. I've read these kinds of comments too many times on BC. Being trans is NOT a reason for suicide. What happens to you because your trans also is NOT a reason for suicide.
As usual Rasufelle has made a wonderful point. I would like to add to it without high-jacking her thread.
Although most of the writers on BC are on the distaff side, there is a right way to ask for more, as Dickens has shown us.
When an audience rises as one and asks for more at a concert, they're taking part in a dance in which they know the singer/band have held a favorite in their pocket for an encore.
Writers normally don't hold back. When they add "The End", it usually is.
For the last nearly twenty years I've been writing TG fiction. Most of my work contains one basic theme. "People know more about us than we think they do, and accept more that what we imagine."
I continue to regurgitate this theme because I hate the guilt feelings that I, and others like me have about our desires.
Sometimes I feel like I'm shouting into the wind. Other times, worse.
Why don't more BC writers support Hatbox by contributing stories to it?
I can't think of one valid reason.
It would seem logical that more people would subscribe to Hatbox if their was more quality content. Content seemingly is king. If Hatbox added a new story every week, from authors with followings, there's no doubt the number of subscriptions would skyrocket. More revenue, less doubt about the sustainability of BC. BC is NOT a given.
Hatbox subscriptions are one of the vital supportive measures for BC.
On most issues "Donald: The Voice of Reason" is an oxymoron, however. . ..
For whatever reason, cynical conservative politicians have decided to use transgender as a political football and wedge issue. Their bathroom bills have prompted bigotry to crawl out from under rocks.
I read TG stories because they affirm my belief that there are a lot of people in the world who think somewhat like I do. I feel threatened by what I see as a less than compassionate attitude expressed by many in RL. The more I believe there are millions of TG people, the less I fear my own reality.
K.T. Leone recently passed away. Coincidentally I was reading her God Bless the Child. I haven't read much that Katie write for the last ten years or more. I didn't care for some of her themes and we "spared" years ago.
I just finished God Bless the Child. If you haven't read it, you should consider allowing yourself this treat. It's graphic and not for the faint of heart. It contains some religious sentiment, but not more than what is needed to be true to the story.
Once again Rasufelle (Melanie E) has been the inspiration for a raft of new standalone stories.
While I applaud the skill and determination of the serial writers, I long for more short and intemediate stories.
Over the last few years Melanie has pushed, cajoled, and coaxed writers through contests and challenges to produce stories, mostly short stories. I shudder to think how few short stories would have been posted had she not been such a driving force.
She's my Easter bunny carrying baskets full of short stories.
1.) If we didn't have BC where would the authors post their stories? There are other sites, but none as welcoming and as author-friendly as BC.
2.) If we didn't have BC where would readers find stories? There are other sites, but none offer the quality of BC. Why? See 1.).
3.) If we didn't have BC where would bloggers post their thoughts? There are other sites, but are bloggers on other sites able to post with confidence that their thoughts will be appreciated and handled with respect.
Yesterday a blog gathered opinions about corporal punishment.
This site spends a great deal of time discussing bullies. There doesn't seem to be any argument that bullies are awful human beings. Yet, it appears the majority of those who responded to the survey support corporal punishment.
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