traumatized experiences questions about what exactly they may remember. Having someone who is experienced in trauma to talk with may do well to help you sort things out. The term 'false memories' is a misnomer; often used by others to wrongly bring doubt to a victim's story.

AND in dealing with sexual abuse, it is all too common for the focus to dwell on exact details while missing the very real validity of remembering that the trauma occurred, The trauma itself contributes to the inability to recall details. Your accounts over the years have been consistent with someone who indeed was abused. You WERE harmed. The details might be recalled; most are. But what you cannot recall entirely will likely eventually made clear.

All my best, dear one!