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I am really worried about Jaci. She seems really down over the rejection of her family, and it seems like its getting worse as the holiday approaches.
So if you would, spend a moment at some point today to send her some love, okay?
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Worried about Jaci also
Keep you chin up, Jaci, and accept all the love that we can give you.
Love Love Love
All we need is love
and here is a lot from me!
Hugs, huggles, and Love!
Stormy
Don't let someone else talk you out of your dreams. How can we have dreams come true, if we have no dreams?
Katrina Gayle "Stormy" Storm
the Family we're
stuck with can sometimes hurt us the most. the family we pick hopefully will help fill the gaps. Jaci is cared for by many here (plus we still want more stories when she can).
hope you both have a great Holliday season
I wish I could prepare people
It makes me really sad to see my sisters suffer so. No one, not one single person tried to warn me in 2004 that coming out would be so destructive. It has been years now, and my daughters won't speak at all. My son speaks to me but in such a way that I wish he wouldn't. My X, I have not heard from since I was thrown out and she got with some bitch, feminist, counselor that convinced her that I could hurt her. What the hell!
I try to tell you ladies that this will probably hurt like hell, but no one listens! What the hell am I supposed to do with this? Some few, like a couple, have had better results with their families, and believe me if you are not just the most thankful people on the planet, I would like to whack you with a bat.
A couple people have even confronted me, telling me that it is so hard and asking why I did not warn them? What am I supposed to do with that? Can you understand even remotely how much that hurts me also???
Frankly, if you are her friend, then you need to be there for her like so many have been there for you. Forget offering advice, that is so male ! Just commiserate with her in the most loving way you can. Who knows maybe being sympathetic about someone else's suffering will help you to grow yourself. It usually does. And, brace your self for a lot of your own tears. Remember her suffering is not about YOU, it is about her, and her friends need to show compassion full stop!
Gwendolyn
Best Wishes
Jaci,
The holidays can be tough when things go badly, and I cannot imagine how bad it would be to have your family reject you at any time. Remember you have friends and family here. Try to keep your spirits up and hope for a better tomorrow.
And, since it sounds like your family won't say it, Merry Christmas.
Titania
Lord, what fools these mortals be!
Hope Springs Eternal...
Jaci,
Although we've never met face-to-face I have gotten to know you a bit by your stories and blogs. I want to to know that you will always have friends here, no matter what. You are valued for the beautiful and wonderful woman that you are. Of course your great stories don't hurt any either. :)
I hope your injuries heal quickly and that you have a great holiday season.
Hugs,
Mark <3