of all the ways I could lose my brother and sister in law, if this little tiff turns out to be the end of our relationship, well, its a pretty pathetic end.
ah, well.
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The people who mind don't matter, and the people who matter don't mind.
Simples.
You need to remember that a
You need to remember that a relationship is when two people connect with each other. If you are the one that has to always do the work in the relationship and the other person does nothing than that is not a real relationship. It is a situation where one person is feeding of the social energies of the other. If someone wants to have a relationship with you they should also be working at fixing things and not expecting you to come apologize and make up with them. I have learned from experience that as much as you might like someone if they don't care enough about you to try just as hard as you do then the relationship is not worth having.
Very, very true.....
When you really care about someone, or truly love someone, that person's well being and welfare should be more important to you than your own. If your family doesn't feel that way about you, then who needs them?
Remember the old saying - you can pick your friends, but you're stuck with your family. You didn't choose them - they were simply an accident of birth. That chance occurrence doesn't necessarily make them great people, or make them into loving, caring siblings. It just means that you share parentage.
Find the people that love you and nurture those relationships.
Here's hoping that you find your way,
Dallas
D. Eden
Dum Vivimus, Vivamus
Dottie, I feel your pain.
The question should be why are they willing to let this thingy end the relationship? Do they REALLY care so little for you? If this is so I think you know what you should do! Here's another Big Squishy ((((Hug)))) hon. Taarpa
Might be the best day of your life.
Everytime I have contact with the family I get hurt. Does it make sense to continue?
Not boasting
It is so sad when i read about the rejection on this site. I too delayed for YEARS before transition. When I finally did people's reactions were oh yeah we thought so. I spent many days crying over wasted time. Not everyone experiences rejection. Im no beauty. So its not my physical appearance and i thought i was macho but apparently the only one who didnt know was ME.
Dayna.