A huge surprise this last week or so. A Saudi Arabian friend of mine asked me if I could put up a female college grad until she finds an apartment, and now she will be moving out on the 15th, and that will have been three weeks. My Saudi Friend does not know about me and neither does she, and I'm not telling. It's given me a rare opportunity to glimpse into the female world.
She opens up to me in ways that I do not solicit. Last night she talked to me about having a sex dream about my Saudi friend. Another time she said she likes to make out with some guys without penetrative intercourse. I warned her that guys quickly move from making out to sex. She accepted that but seemed to want to make it the way she wanted it to be. That's the way you get raped. How silly of this young woman. I'm suspecting that she might be after some lesbian action with me and that is not happening.
When I was in Honduras in the late 90's a Surgeon took a liking to me and we drank some beer over dinner several times. He once told me as we were talking about the Monica Lewinsky incident that women cannot accept that in the heart of every man lies the mind of a wolf.
Years later, in retrospect, I wonder if I was sending non-male signals and did not even know it? I liked him a lot, and these days, thinking back, we might have had a romp in the straw perhaps?
These conversations with her are providing unexpected insight into the chaotic mind of a woman.
LOL
Gwen
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You obviously pass
better than you think. It always makes me smile when people talk to me about these gender benders without knowing my history.
Angharad
Like Cathy
And like Cathy, in Bike, I am the last person to support myself. And part of the time, I am bloody angry with those who forcibly converted me, and mad that I can't pass as a male. Thinking quietly about it, I can be very ungrateful for things that others die to have.
Gwen
That's not always true
There are asexual people, maybe she's asexual and desires a romantic relationship without sex?
I know who I am, I am me, and I like me ^^
Transgender, Gamer, Little, Princess, Therian and proud :D
Chaotic Female Minds
I hate to break this to you, but all minds are chaotic. There is a reason why men and women spend so much time wondering what the other thinks, or feels. Men may communicate more insight to each other, as do women, but any woman who tells you we understand each other on some basic cosmic level is full of excrement. I would venture a guess that it is the same for men. We only understand each other on the most superficial of levels because we communicate a little about our feelings with our peers.
The cold hard fact is that we are not really honest with ourselves, so how can anyone understand us when we cannot even understand ourselves?
When we are gay, lesbian, trans, or whatever other deep dark secret we lock in that deepest vault of the soul it just adds another layer to the minefield that we perceive exists between us as human beings.
Be kind to those who are unkind, tolerant toward those who treat you with intolerance, loving to those who withhold their love, and always smile through the pains of life.