Had a nice conversation at work last night. Was talking to a woman who knows a bit of my history and mentioned struggling with finding guys attractive, and gave as an example one of the receivers at work who passed me the day before in a tight white t shirt and me doing a double take, and then freaking out about it.

She giggled, and said a guy dressed like that is asking to be looked at, and that got me giggling, and I felt much better about the whole thing.

The nicest thing about the conversation was that it didnt feel at all like she was seeing me as a trans girl, but as a woman, full stop, and I am profoundly grateful when that happens.