I'm feeling sort of tearful, perhaps without right? It's been years since I wanted a spanking. I thought that was over.

I was talking with my therapist and she asked me if I felt arousal when I got dressed in the morning? That brought me up short. I felt like I'd gotten poked with a stick.

Later, on reflection I realized that many years ago, I WAS a Crossdresser and got aroused, with the normal consequences. Sometime in the last 15 years, all that disappeared, though there is a trigger that will do it. I wore an Orthopedic Corset for I think, 3 years, to heal three ruptured disks, and it worked. Just estimating, I think it has been 10 years since perhaps. A while back, I did see a woman in a Corset, and that lit the fire, but after a while things calmed.

So, for those who are post op and have been living as a woman for an extended period of time, had arousal gone away?

Gwen