I dont know how not to fight

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When I was little, I had this rather bad habit of trying to lecture bullies on why it was bad to bully. Of course, that usually resulted in me getting pounded, me running for my life, or my brother trying his best to protect me.

All these years later, I still jump in when I see people getting hurt, even though there is nothing I can do except lecture people from behind my computer, and it has cost me more than I would like.

But I dont know how not to fight for what I think is right.

In Pathfinder terms, I guess I'm a Paladin, whether I want to be or not ...

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When you do what you feel is

When you do what you feel is right, those who are upset are wrong. You have tons of friends, don't worry.

sorry to say

but the term "typical girl" comes to mind when I read that.

Story of my life...

Story of my life...

always fighting battles that others won't fight or gave up on or don't think is worth fighting over. At least you have a great personality, I always end up angering people and upsetting everyone I know because I can't stop fighting.

Call me Don Quixote, because I keep tilting at windmills to fight dragons that only I see.

I'm told STFU more times in a day than most people get told in a lifetime

When I was young

When I was young I was on the receiving end of bullies a lot. My father got so sick of it he and his team in the military taught me everything they could about fighting. Of course the bullies were determined and just started bringing more bullies. I gave as good as I got and eventually they left me alone, especially after it began taking more and more of them to win.

Then my father retired from the military and we moved back to my parent's birth home. I began high school there and watched as the bullies figured out their pecking order along with their targets. When one decided that I was a worthy target to be bullied, I quickly and efficiently as possible sent him to the emergency room.

Many weeks later a group of 3 bullies decided I needed to be shown my place. That was the last time I fought anyone in school. None of the other bullies wanted anything to do with me. And the way rumors spread around a high school only made them fear me more.

While that was the last fight I was in during school, it wasn't the last time I had any issues with bullies as I became something of an Anti-bully, a protector, jumping into the middle of things stopping the bullies when they went after someone else. having been bullied for so long myself, I couldn't stand by and do nothing when I saw it happening to others. And the bullies quickly learned that picking on others when I wasn't around to stop it came out usually worse for them as I could be quit the evil genius when I wanted.

Did you know if you pour a few dozen hibernating hornets into a car's heater vents, they wake up really angry when the warmth from the car's heater thaws them out?

We the willing, led by the unsure. Have been doing so much with so little for so long,
We are now qualified to do anything with nothing.