Control Dramas like these people demonstrate come from the fact the majority of people are paying to much attention to the lives of others to keep there nose where it belongs on their own face and not shoved up the private parts of another, they want control but are too lazy or messed up to smell there own private parts, then placing there attentions where they need to be improving them selves, not bulling others. . It has taken far too long for me to realize that I need to just look back along the pointing arm of a detractor to see who really that are talking about. them selves,

Some of the wisdom I have gathered from my elders track along this line, 1] " You say your poop don't stink, but your farts give you away, 2] Every fox smells there own den," 3] When you drop your robes and depart this place you will need to answer this one question from the creator, " Michele you were given choices please tell me what you have done with them," in that moment no one else but you will be standing there no detractors, no religious leaders, no one else but you. It took far too many years for this thick headed wolf to get this simple fact, I was driven to this when in defense of my 7 year old daughter threatened to shove my substantially large spouse out a tinny window before they would ever lay another hand on my Anna. They are now elsewhere and I am really my self all because I knew I would have to answer to Grand Father Great spirit what I had done with that choice.

Polonius:
This above all: to thine own self be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.