Here is a neat web page done by a trans woman. I hate using that term but must because if I just called her a woman, as I call myself, you would think that she knew nothing.

http://www.secondtype.info/bodysize.htm

This highlights the struggle of larger T folk very well. I know that they can not change what is in their heads and they are stuck with a body that they feel considerable pain over. My only, heart felt, suggestion is to do the best you can.

In the above link there are some T girls that you may be familiar with. I was going to have butt surgery at the same time I did SRS but I just ran out of money, and nothing short of being rescued by Donald Trump or a Saudi prince can help it, and even then I may be too late.

Being intersexed myself; to an unknown degree, I kept a very good hip, waist, bust ratio for most of my life until I began to gain weight after 50. I struggled to keep the same dimensions in spite of the weight gain until the Doc told me that a person like me puts weight on inside the abdominal cavity. It is the most dangerous place to gain weight because it crowds the internal organs. So now, it is with the utmost urgency that I struggle to shed the last 25 or 30 pounds. The Doc says I am extreme danger of a heart attack unless I do it and very soon.