Why?

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I kept waiting for one of our more articulate members to post some meaningful comments on the incident at Virgina Tech on Monday, but as nobody else has spoken up, I feel compelled to do so.

I guess I'm showing my age, I just don't understand what is going on these days. Why do people, especially the younger generation, feel that violence is an acceptable means of handling a situation? When I was growing up, there were plenty of guns around, and lots of teen angst, yet we didn't start shooting at random people. The shooting at VT is just the bloody peak of a trend towards settling any dispute with a gun. Last year in the town I used to live in, a young man was angry that he had been denied entrance to a party being held in a motel room, so he pulled out a gun and started shooting into the room. The result was one killed and two others in jail awaiting trial on murder charges. What positive thing was accomplished here? Did the young man who pulled the trigger think this would somehow get him admitted to more parties in the future? Did he even think?

Thursday is also the anniversary of the April 19th, 1995 bombing of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building in Oklahoma City, an incident with which I and my brother were much too personally involved in, as a college friend of his was killed in the bombing, and he spent several days keeping the friend's wife company before the body was finally located and recovered. I, in turn, helped him each night when he came home from work; having spent the day in Okla. City and then working his regular evening shift at work.

I know I don't have any answers, just a lot of questions, and a few opinions. The whole gun control issue, for one thing. To me, it's totally bogus to say things like this wouldn't happen if guns were banned. Everyday people can't buy high explosives either, but Tim McVey managed to kill 168 people using other, more commonly available items. So let us not even go there.

What I see is a serious flaw in the fabric of our society. When it's okay to hate others, and acceptable to act on that hate, we have a problem.

What is going on? Why are these things happening? I don't know, but I believe we need to find out, and do something about it.

My deepest sympathies and heartfelt anguish for the people at Virgina Tech. God Bless you all.

Karen J.

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