My wife and I spent the last two days visiting the hospital twice in the midst of a snowstorm (32" at last measure and we're expecting some more) Anyway, Mrs. D is even now experiencing chest pains and pains through her neck as well. Three (count 'em) EKG's and blood work proved negative after an overnight stay for observation. Likely cause is significant problems with autonomic nervous system, including Fibroyalgia, Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, and a new problem called P.O.T.S.; (http://www.dinet.org/pots_an_overview.htm) at least that's the call from her fibro doctor in NYC. She's due for a Stress test (postponed three times) on Monday, but her Cardio doctor expects a good result. I'm worn out, she's exhausted and we've been discouraged over her health. I can tell this to you.... I love her more than my own life, and I've struggled so much with my own health and emotional issues that I feel more helpless than I ever have. We'll be married twenty-five years in May...you know how I feel.

That's why this note is so important. I have friends here from all over the world...NYC, Virginia, Minnesota, New Mexico, Arizona, Nevada, Florida, Utah, Singapore, Australia, England, Ireland, Germany, Brazil...Saturn...okay, I made the last one up. The list goes on...So many people pulling for us. Kind comments like "we're praying," or "my thoughts are with you," or "You know you can call me anytime." It literally brings me to tears to know how much you've all cared for me and my family this past year.

Me crying should be a surprise to no one. It's the "YOU" that's important here. Every one who's ever written a note of encouragement and support; displaying love from folks I've never met but feel more like family than some of my own. I am in awe of what you have done for me. Once again, a huge thank you to Erin and the delightful folk who make this the best site anywhere. I can go several places to find things to read, and maybe to post, but nowhere on earth (97 million square miles) and with no other ones on earth (6.8 billion) would we find the care and love and community that I've found here.

Thanks once again... I'm certainly glad to sound like a skipping CD (broken records being a thing of the past) when it comes to loving and gratitude, both of which you dear ones deserve beyond measure. Con tanto amore! Andrea