Father's day is always kinda weird for me.
I lost my dad so young I dont remember him, and my stepdad was a horrible abusive person I could never call "dad".
But my mom did her best for me, my brother protected me, and my grandfather gave me a positive role model for men.
Then there is the fact that I am a father, even though I have felt more like a girl than a boy for 90 % of my life, and have finally embraced and integrated that girl into myself and let her become the woman she should have always had been.
Like I said, Father's day is weird for me ...
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waited until both parent were dead before I allowed Wendy to come out, but I raised my three kids as a man. so I do understand.
I think that it is probably
I think that it is probably weird for many of us. There are a number of reasons why I continue to keep my own duality from sight... not the least of which is liking BOTH sides of me. Still... It would have been magical to have experienced Mothers Day instead.