I hope this will help some of you work things out.

Earlier I read an article that dealt with the idea of there being another "self" inside us. The author wrote about the fact that some twins are so close that they are almost linked at the hip and so on.

I think the article was on BBC/co/uk, but did I save the link? NO. Sorry.

It was quite good I think and inspired me to apply some of the thought to my life as a woman. Since around '95 I have slowly been killing my male self, and in the last few years have increasingly seen that He is still there despite my trying as hard as I could to be ultra woman. Mostly that has been effective but reading this article has made it clear to me that it is cruel and inhumane to kill Him.

And perhaps in 50 years, that is where so called GID will end up. Perhaps we will simply be allowed to express both our selves in a pleasant and gentle way? I know of at least one T person who has decided to live as a woman but not have the full SRS. Right on girl!!!