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38 years ago it was a Monday morning when I went into my office as a woman and everyone was very helpful. I've had a few difficult days since then including coming to terms with a stroke and the finite quality of life. I've lost my son, my marriage had already broken up, but he took his own life in 2014, a week after I'd celebrated 28 years of being me. The surgery took longer than anticipated but gave me time to know it was right for me. I just got into the fast track applicants to the Gender Panel, so after 16 or so years as female, I actually got legal status as one.

In some ways my dormouse licence gave me more of a thrill and I still feel great affection to my favourite rodents. So now, body fading and growing more feeble each week, I suppose I'm officially an old lady but I don't feel like one. There was much I wanted to do after retirement that the stroke has not made any easier, although I count myself lucky, I didn't die, so still have some chance of doing some more of my bucket list.

Here, I wish some of my earlier readers and fellow authors were still with us, but they have been less lucky than I, especially my best friend Anne Galliver who died three years ago. I can't say I've seen it all, but I have seen a fair few things. I regret not travelling more and sometimes not writing more, but my stuff seems to be an acquired taste and the readership has changed. I won't say what I think of that any more than being one of about 50 writers who Jill suggested were the top fifteen writers on this site.

I'm probably not one of the 15 but I am the most prolific and none have come close to about 3500+ episodes of various stories and nearly 100 short stories. Never mind the quality... I think most of them are readable if not enjoyed by the modern readers. I also feel I've written one or two things which compare with any other writer here.

So now I'm going to have my dinner and celebrate quietly with my two cats, once they've stopped destroying the place, and wish you all a pleasant evening.

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Thank you!

Andrea Lena's picture

For your writing and your presence here!

  

To be alive is to be vulnerable. Madeleine L'Engle
Love, Andrea Lena

i'll organise

Maddy Bell's picture

a curry and pizza party to celebrate! What's that? you don't like spicy food or cheese on toast, dang, guess i'll fetch some tuna instead lol

enjoy the evening, see you soon


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Madeline Anafrid Bell

I must be a fan...

I binge read the first few thousand episodes of EAFOaB, and have been following it ever since. I get great pleasure reading your tales, and I wish you continued support from your Muse.

Steve

When I first joined BCTS nearly 12 years ago……..

D. Eden's picture

God! Has it really been that long?!?! I guess it has………

Anyway, when I joined nearly twelve years ago, it took me a little while to begin reading your work. But you kept showing up - a new post every single day! Of course, the title didn’t exactly leap out at me; after all, not being a resident of those islands across the sea, nor being an Anglophile or one who follows obscure rodentia, a story about Dormice didn’t really attract me.

Honestly, other than reading the work of Lewis Carroll in my youth I had never even seen the word. In my world, mice were nasty little things that tried to get into your house when the weather got cold. Nothing more than a disgusting bother that you needed to guard against every year, akin to their larger cousin the rat. And it never really occurred to me that there was a difference in the two animals. Like most Americans, I assumed that the story referred to a mouse that lived near a door, lol.

But after a while, seeing your daily postings, I decided to read your gargantuan story from the beginning - and I was hooked! I had to read all of your stories.

You played an instrumental part in my coming back to this site day after day, and still being here today.

Yes, the times have changed - a fact which I have commented on here previously. We have lost many authors, whether to the ravages of time and health, or simply to apathy and the demands of real life. But you have been a constant here for many of us, and for that I thank you.

It seems we will need to modify the old saying…….. there are now three things which one cannot avoid……….. Death, taxes, and Angharad.

As for me, I will gladly choose the last one.

D. Eden

Dum Vivimus, Vivamus

If you will pardon an extended American metaphor. . . .

Emma Anne Tate's picture

You are Cal Ripken, Jr., known throughout baseball as “The Iron Man.”

Ripken played Major League Baseball for 21 years, which is . . . really hard to do. It’s tough to stay on the top of the game for even ten years. He played all twenty-one seasons for the same team — the Baltimore Oriels — which isn’t (or more accurately, wasn’t) exactly unheard of, but in a sport where players and owners have agendas that rarely line up over the long haul, it’s rare, and in a player of Ripken’s quality, it demonstrates a high and frequently tested degree of loyalty. He played a very challenging position — shortstop— for most of his career, earning two golden glove awards. He was selected for the American League’s All Star Team 19 times and held records for hits, runs batted in and home runs for shortstops. He won eight silver slugger awards for his batting, was rookie of the year his first season, and won the prestigious Roberto Clemente award for his charitable work. He is most remembered, though, as the player who broke “the record that could not be broken” — the record for most consecutive games played — a record previously held by the legendary Lou Gehrig.

Year in, year out, through injuries, illnesses, batting slumps, and his share of personal tragedies, Ripken told his manager that he was available, suited up, and played the game. Unlike American Football (“Gridiron” to you and your non-American fans), baseball’s regular season lasts half a year and consists of 162 games. Before he finally took himself off the roster for a game, he played 2,632 consecutive games. On the day he broke Gehrig’s record (2130), the President and Vice President of the United States were in attendance along with Gehrig’s teammate, Joe DiMaggio (as far as I know, no relation of our own amazing Andrea Lena). The crowd gave him a standing ovation that lasted twenty-two minutes.

In any given year, when the stats were reviewed (baseball fans are pure geeks about statistics), there were always players who had better moments. More home runs, or hits. More stolen bases, for sure. Plenty of players were more “flash,” as my Australian friends would say. If you tried to compile a “Rushmore” of baseball in 1990, or 1995, or possibly even today, he might not be on it — everyone values different metrics differently, after all. But to anyone who truly understands baseball, who understands why it is different than virtually any other sport, and who values the habits of mind, body and spirit it inculcates at its very best, Cal Ripken is Rushmore.

And so, my dear, are you.

Ripken was elected to the baseball Hall of Fame as soon after his retirement as he was eligible, in a nearly unanimous vote. If we had such a thing you wouldn’t be in it, because you haven’t retired and I hope, selfishly, that I don’t see that day. But I’m giving you a standing ovation anyway.

Emma

Well, Old Girl

joannebarbarella's picture

You've actually been an official member of BC one month longer than me. But you've contributed more to this site than I ever have.

We all get our share of tragedy. My wife died just over ten years ago and it destroyed whatever creative spirit I might have had for probably five years. However, time, at least partially, heals all wounds, or the scar tissue grows over them.

I still remember reading your stories from the early days that I was on this site. I sort of came in after the commencement of EAFOAB and at that time I was more involved in your other slightly shorter ventures, which were delightful and I followed them avidly. I would dip into EAFOAB now and then but I didn't follow the series for every episode (which I do now). You did make us love bikes and dormice over the years.

I do hope I can call you 'Friend' and I will happily nominate you as 'primus inter pares' of the authors here. As far as I am concerned you are the uncrowned Queen of all of our writers.

I don't know what more I can say that has not already been said by two far more eloquent commentors than me, D.Eden and Emma Anne Tate, other than to echo their sentiments, and I want to see you telling stories here for many more years.

Thank you

Angharad's picture

For the lovely comments, be reassured I have no plans to leave so I may just continue boring you all to death with my kind of fiction. Now it's back to trying to tame two mad cats and prevent even more damage to my home.

Angharad