Every Woman is Not a Beauty Queen

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Sometimes it is funny to bring them up to speed if done right. Yesterday I was picking up goat panel from Atwoods, a farm and ranch store. Each panel is five feet wide, sixteen feet long of four inch by four inch welded, grade six rod. They sent one guy out to load it. Not happening so it was up to him and me. One had to be there to see the problem and understand. I'm five five, picking up my end of that panel meant I had to climb up on the pile, pick up my end, slide it off to the side, get down, help put it up on the flat bed, and do that all over before the next panel.

He kept calling me "sir" which was funny to me. I'm wearing a sleeveless denim blouse, really short denim mini skirt, work boots, big straw cowboy hat, dream catcher earrings, and of course red lipstick. The more I thought about it that day as I was pulling the paneling off the flatbed to build a corral I knew I had the perfect joke.

Today they sent three guys out to load panel for me..., and yes one of them kept calling me "sir". I'm dressed almost the same except today I have a baseball cap, long pony tail instead of a cowboy hat. We get loaded and I stopped them from wandering off.

"Guys, wait a minute, I have something to tell you."

They stopped and waited wondering what I had to say.

"Yesterday one of the gentlemen kept calling me sir. I swear he must have played hooky during sex education class, his parents never explained the birds and bees to him, or he never saw a naked female. I swear if he had called me sir one more time, I would have removed my blouse, pulled off my skirt and showed him something he obviously has never seen..., a naked female body."

I didn't make it about these gentlemen but the one the previous day, yet the message was there. I bet that story makes the rounds of "ALL" the help before it's finished.

One of the guys mumbled, "Yes ma'am, thank you." As they all turned and walked back into the store.

Could I? Would I? Yes I could but I really wouldn't I believe it is a message they will remember the rest of their lives. Not all females look like Homecoming Queen. I've seen some cowgirls and farm girls who could step off the glamor model runway even if they were wearing a toesack. I'm not one of them.
Be yourself, don't try and be someone else. If one feels the need to hand out education, do it softly, gently. Keep in mind there are a lot of GG who didn't get the Beauty Queen Package, we aren't in a competition unless one makes it thus.

I truly don't mind if someone calls me sir, or miss, or ma'am or hey you. The problem was these gentlemen keep doing it instead of a misunderstanding.
Hugs People, accept yourself for who you are.
Barb

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