Crossdressing, comedy and the experience of being transgender

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I have written about crossdressers so far because although I empathize with transgendered individuals and their experiences, I am not transgendered and I feel that any attempt to write from that perspective runs the risk of being patronizing and false. I'm certainly willing and able to write from a perspective other than my own but for some reason I see certain points of view as being difficult or impossible to approach. On the other hand, I feel that in only writing about crossdressers (and in particular crossdressers that act as the fool of their own stories) I am somehow suggesting that there is something foolish about appearing as you are not.

To be clear, I do not believe that is the case for transgendered people as transitioning is about presenting yourself to the world as you know you are. For those who choose to not transition in a public manner the choice does not change who they are.

Rather, I see certain depictions of gender in the media (such as in advertising or popular fiction) as presenting false ideas of what it means to be male or female. Those ideas and people who hold onto them are worthy of satire.

I suppose I wrote this in an attempt to give myself permission to continue to write comedies in this manner. What it means to be male or female is complex and goes far beyond appearances. To reduce gender to physical attributes and to then assume deeper aspects of identity based on those attributes is absurd, demeaning and worth mocking.

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Write what you want.

Write what you want. And write for yourself. All writers write about people they are not. Male, female, transgendered. It is just the nature of writing. The key is to do your research on the subject you writer, both before you write, while you have an outline, and when you are writing, with you have reference material. And if after the fact, you make a mistake. Just go back and correct the error, and then move on.

Thank you

For respecting Trans people, however it's perfectly okay for you to write about us. You could always just ask trans women and other AMAB non-cis of their lived experiences and how their life goes. Just make sure to listen to what we are saying and try to communicate it as best you can and as respectfully as you can. Too often Trans voices are silenced by Cis people, just try to listen and ask any trans people around you for help if necessary. Feel free to ask me or someone else if you need any help :D

I know who I am, I am me, and I like me ^^
Transgender, Gamer, Little, Princess, Therian and proud :D

keep writing

We need to be able to laugh at ourselves. There is much humor in the absurdity of trying to force people into gender roles they do not fit.

Don't be afraid

I am not trans too, but will also urge you to write. Don't be afraid that you will not be perfect - If you were, you would be God. :-)

Moreover, skillfully applied mistakes sometimes contribute to the story quality. And sometimes even blunt mistakes can have some value.

Finally, trans people are humans like you and me, and also are able to have a laugh at themselves. Use a kind-hearted humor, and I think that you will be on the safe side.

Thank you

I just wanted to thank you all for the feedback and encouragement. I'm back to making slow progress on what is currently planned out as a novella-length story for Bigcloset.