Thank you Angharad,

This article is really interesting and one would hope, people actually read it. Yet such issues raised doesn't only concern trans people. In my experience of living stealth and openly being lesbian, homosexual people are being asked similar questions about their sex lifes. I always wonder why it is of anyones concern what my sex life is? We don't ask our straight friends and aquientances about theirs and they most certainly would offended by such a question.