Of gender, privilege and word games

Put down your morning coffee and clear anything that is breakable away from your desk and out of arms reach.

Before you open and read the piece the attached link takes you to, I ask that all readers reframe from posting comments in which you feel compelled to use every expletive and deleted you learned in the locker room or heard bantered about in the barracks. If you feel the need to vent you spleen, please do so as another blog entry under your name.

I post this because I feel it is important for people to know what others think and how they view us. Not everyone is willing to throw their arms out and welcome you when you finally come out and inform them you are transgender. Not every mama is going to think it’s simply darling to dress their son up as a little girl. Believe it or not, there are some people out there that don’t like us, really!

While political correctness has made it easier for the newbies to openly transition and live their lives in an appropriate manner, the stifling of opinion in the public square has caused many who are very much anti-TG to keep their thoughts to themselves. This is both good and bad in that today girls or boys coming out of the closet are not badgered by those who see them as an abomination as some of us old timers were. That does not mean their opinion has not changed. If anything, some chose to make their thoughts known through other, more insidious ways, subtle, unspoken bigotry that is just as hurtful as the old brand and no less dangerous who use their position to discriminate against us.

So when you read this piece, do so for the purpose of learning what others think, but might not be willing to say. As I was taught as a young officer; ‘Know your enemy.

Nancy Cole
a.k.a. HW Coyle

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Of gender, privilege and word games

http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2013/oct/9/philbin-of-ge...

[Link modified slightly for safety by me. -- Erin]

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