A couple of Anniversaries for me.

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Sunday is Bastille Day, the anniversary of the storming of the notorious prison in Paris which was one of the trigger points of the French Revolution and arguably, the French have been revolting ever since.

It's also the twenty seventh anniversary of my own revolution in that it was on the 14th July 1986 I began my transition by going into work in a skirt. Sometimes it seems longer, sometimes it feels like only yesterday. The only difference in me then and now (apart from the change of a small piece of anatomy) is that I'm bit greyer and heavier, otherwise I'm still the innocent and charming psychopath I've always been.

The second anniversary is a sixth one. On Tuesday, 'Bike' is six years old. Who in their right mind would have thought I'd still be tormenting Cathy and her growing family six years from when it started, and some two thousand one hundred episodes later. Mind you the bigger question is, how come there are still people reading it who challenge me as soon as I do anything less than pleasant to any of the characters or who cheer from the sidelines when Cathy or her brood triumph over some obstacle or opponent, or Trish drops one of her frequent malapropisms or one liners.

Sometimes I regret the odd storyline, the mafia, the blue light and goddess stuff because it was intended to be a light hearted look at someone who had no idea much about life, but a strong moral code, find the way through the maze of hazards caused by transsexualism, coming to terms with their sexuality, dealing with others who found her attractive and then the needs of a group of children and young adults who needed her guidance and protection all while doing the odd bike ride.

Life was never going to be easy for Cathy because like me, she finds it difficult if not impossible to walk by on the other side, we're both good Samaritan types, which is poignant because as transsexual women, like the original character in the parable, we're both outsiders or outcasts from polite society but we don't let it stop us trying to adhere to a moral code even if it's seen as old fashioned or irrelevant in this age of rampant materialism. While I enjoy my material comforts, I try not to let them rule my life; preferring to believe that the real treasures of this world are the relationships we have with other people and some pets. My own daughter's recent illness brought that into a real life perspective, and I am grateful for all the good wishes and thoughts I received on her behalf from readers and friends here. It's her birthday on the 26th, she'll be thirty five and is in reasonable health, six months ago we were really worried about her as she struggled with the spinal tumour and the subsequent surgery to deal with it. So far so good, and her courage before, during and since was salutary.

Thank you all for the support I've received here for my writing and personal issues which I've aired here. I presume you want me to continue composing my nonsense and sharing it with you, which somehow has amassed to the largest body of work here - what I lack in quality, I make up for in quantity. So until either you get fed up reading or I do writing, it looks like we're stuck with each other.

Finally thanks to Erin and her team for keeping this place going and for indulging my posts, occasionally sorting the mess I make in arranging them or in listening to my grumbles. For all its faults, this is still the best TG story site on the web by a very long way and I'm privileged to have clogged up so much of its servers with my nonsense.

Angharad.

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Comments

Yes, please allow your

Yes, please allow your creativity to always drain into the clog you've created on BigCloset. :)

Mind you, I wouldn't mind more SNAFUs, but Bike is generally a good quick read for the day.

_Take some days off_. I'd rather you not burn out on it, at least not for another few thousand installments :)


I'll get a life when it's proven and substantiated to be better than what I'm currently experiencing.

Happy anniversary

Happy anniversary for all your occasions. I am thankful for knowing you and couldn't imagine a world or a Big Closet without you. Cheers my friend to many more years. Love, Jenn.


I wear this crown of thorns
Upon my liar's chair
Full of broken thoughts
I cannot repair

YKW, IKR

You keep writing, I'll keep reading. How else am I meant to sleep if I haven't had my fix of 'bike'?

Us psychopaths need to stick together.

Please carry on clogging the site.

S.

Giving thanks

Thank you so much for being you!

*HUGS

Hugs, Fran

Re: Bike

Hello Angharad.

On Tuesday, 'Bike' is six years old.

That's remarkable! It only seems like yesterday since you started it. It'll never catch up with The Archers, though. ;)

Dave.

I would so not Drano(tm) your clog

I enjoy the Cathy's whole tangled hairy mess that her life is becoming :)

Happy anniversary to your transition hon.

1986? It took real guts to do that way back when. I was only taking baby steps back then and starting electrolysis and stuff.

Kim

Angharad--

I am not as "old" as you - your 27 years puts you in the ancient catagory compared to my 2½. May you enjoy many, many more. Your good news that your daughter is doing as well as can be expected must be very encouraging - I wish her well - she will be the same age as my youngest son on her birthday. We never stop having concerns over their health & happiness. I send her good wishes for a happy celebration of her birth.

Your confession that BIKE is 6 years old reinforces my long held suspicion that you have missed a couple of Trish's birthdays - surely she has moved on to at least 10 or 12 years old. Her brillance certainly is well beyond the mental capacity of a 8 year old - even for a genius.

A couple of thousand thank yous for you wonderful saga of the goings on in Portsmouth & district.

Ruth

May the sun always shine on your parade

Nonsense

I mean, keep up with the nonsense and other sundry (writing).

Hard to believe it's been six years. WOW. Six years ago, I was in the last throws of trying to keep pretending to be a guy... And, believed transition wouldn't happen for me. Despite the little bumps in the road, the last year has been one of the happiest of my life.

Congrats on some big milestones. And, for me at least, they're certainly NOT millstones. I'd love to be able to look back and have the longer duration milestone some day. :-)

As long as you keep writing (and enjoy doing it) I (and I'm sure many others) will keep on reading.

Thank you,
Annette

Maybe this is the best TG

Maybe this is the best TG story site on the web because of writers like you?

Ban nothing. Question everything.

Congratulation on your

Congratulation on your Anniversaries. If BCTS were a nation, you would be a National Treasure.

Kris

{I leave a trail of Kudos as I browse the site. Be careful where you step!}