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I am hoping that this is a safe place to say this ?
In a few weeks, a dear friend of mine is coming from Saudi Arabia to attend College in Portland. He is a very good man, and we get along so well that if things were different, I would marry him with no hesitation. (We all know what differences they might be) He and I just have so much to talk about. There is a heart connection there that I can not explain.
So, as far as he knows, I am intersexed and there was trouble when some of the local Muslims rejected me. Still, others are fine with it. Well, we all know that this could blow up in a hundred different ways. I'm feeling a little pesimistic about it right now.
STill, in Saudi Arabia, they have SRS at 40 times the world rate, because of interbreeding, and because lots of women there want to be men, for obvious reasons.
I just wanted to vent a little, and share my worries. Not that I am gonna let this be a big crisis.
Much peace
Khadijah
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I hope it works out
I really hope it works out the way you would like hon. hugs.
"Treat everyone you meet as though they had a sign on them that said "Fragile, under construction"
dorothycolleen
You Don't Know Until You Try
If you heart is leading you there then follow! The only think I can offer is to be completely honest from the start. If you are going to spend the rest of your lives together you can't hide the past. More to the point, the self-righteous Qiaran thumpers who made your life hell will appoint themselves emissaries from Allah and be damned sure he knows!
All relationships have problems to overcome and you've had plenty of practice in overcoming. May it turn out well whatever happens!