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It seems every politician wants to pass some law to force everyone else into compliance as herd animals. Too many of us don't fit in with the herd no matter how many laws are passed. Let's begin the story. Trip to OKC and my change from the Women's Clinic to a Gender Clinic. Had met several of the staff from other clinics. Seems as if anything LBGT is pretty fluid with healthcare providers covering a wide expanse of offices and clinics weekly. Remind me to NOT change in the future. The paperwork is a killer and X years of past records fills a large binder.
Staff, medical personnel, doctors, nurses were courteous, pleasant, and professional. Had a ton of fun discussing John Deere tractors, goats, farm life and serious medial changes in the trans treatment that has come in the last few years. Several jokes, lots of compliments later it was time to go and it was after five o'clock. I had a glass of milk at six that morning and plans for several stops in OKC besides the clinic. Didn't happen.
A stop at Braums for a hamburger, Dr Pepper and a powder room stop before I head home. The young girl behind the counter couldn't take her eyes off me when I ordered. I'm use to it and it doesn't bother me. Couldn't be my fly is unzipped, I'm wearing a skirt. The problem arose at the powder room. No Unisex bathroom. Damn gender laws! I go into the men's as it's the only legal course. Figured I could handle any complaints there easier than I could spend a couple hours at the police station explaining, I'm not a male. It was a mistake on my birth certificate. Besides I'm carrying prescriptions labeled for Barbie Jean Lee, explain those. There are so many things we MUST legally and surgically do in the eyes of the law before we are allowed to be called female. At the clinic I was told I was pretty as they complimented me on my skirt, blouse, boots, and rest of my attire, a lot of my IDs carry M. I would have used the ladies if all my IDs were marked F. Choose wisely when making decisions. The men's bathroom was the best of bad choices. Kinda disappointed there were no questions, no problems. I'm no longer blonde so they couldn't have thought I was a ditz? She took a wrong turn or can't read? They were gentlemen and didn't make it an issue?
Do not do what I did if you aren't positive you can protect yourself. Two bad choices need to be three bad choices. Ask a truck driver about the third choice. Sometimes the only option is the third option. Even if you live in the city and the road trips aren't that long. Prepare because things don't always go as planned. I've been stuck on a freeway parking lot for over an hour myself. God, I hate cities! Stay safe, always aware, and extra cautious. Reading about transgender murders or suicides eats at my heart and soul.
Barb
Live your life your way. One of the worst thing in life is building regrets. Or I wish I had.

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