It was only a few weeks ago I started reading this story, but failed to make a note of its title and author. Today I remembered that I had started it.

Our hero(ine) has decided to transition. She has a lover (or ex-lover) in Pittsburgh who is training her in female ways. In the meantime, going home for the holidays, her father kicks his other son out for allegedly being gay. (He isn't but doesn't care if he's perceived that way.) Our hero tells him he'll take him to the airport. When he gets back, his suitcase is outside the door. He has been disowned for helping his brother.

Now his sister calls him because she's getting married. He advises her to just leave the whole family out of it. She wants him there but he doesn't want to be a disruption. When he finally admits to being trans, her reaction is unfavorable. He says goodbye, and then ignores her calls for a few days. When he finally does answer she profusely apologizes, and they're good.

What IS this, and by who?