What is the role of masochism in "feminization" fetishism?

OK, Ill bite.

dawnfyre's picture

Is it really masochism or is it an expression of submission?

For most I have met that are in this type of relationship, they are the submissive half, and it is being "forced" to dress like that which is used to demonstrate their submission to their partner's control. In reality, in all D/s type relationships, the final control does sit with the person giving control up in the scene(s), the Dominant person MUST stay within the limits the submissive person set, pushing those limits is acceptable, but going beyond them frequently ends the relationship.

In the feminization fetish scene, invariably it starts only in private, between the two of them. Over time the Dominant member pushes the submissive into being more open, with it being acceptable finally to attending a public event, traveling there already dressed up. That is comparable to a Transwoman's first public outing in the emotional impact.


Stupidity is a capital offense. A summary not indictable.

Have you read the link?

Each cue of sexual arousal constituted in the anxiety of oneself being associated to symbols of emasculation

Yes I did.

dawnfyre's picture

I just question the masochism conclusion, since submission and masochism are not the same thing at all.

masochism is getting aroused from pain.


Stupidity is a capital offense. A summary not indictable.

S and M have always baffeled me.

But I enjoy reading about people who are attracted to such things. Sometimes.

And I enjoy jokes about Sadists and Masochists.

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By the way, have you heard the one about the Sadist and the Masochist?

The Masochist begs the Sadist to "HURT ME!!!!!"

And the Sadist says "um ... no".

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Masochist

Some are that way without any sort of sexual arousal. If the only time a child is touched is to be beaten, often a connection develops between pain and pleasure. Because of that, some enjoy spankings done in the proper way because crossing into too much pain will kindle anger with sometimes serious consequences. Abnormal Psychology is so fun.