Rachel,

I think your logic is flawed. You are not a human freak. You are what you project. Believe in yourself. Trust me in this. We often have issues of insecurity and those around us pick up on those fears. Always keep your head held high, and shoulders back, believe in yourself as who you are and others will accept you as such. Trust me in this.

My boyfriend and I went took my son and my ex out for his birthday this month and I was dressed to show off my legs that night. I really was dressed to drive him into distraction and did not think about how others would see me. It turned out that all anyone saw were my legs or breasts (I was wearing a knit dress) and the women were angry at their males, or me, and the males would not stop looking at me. The funny part ... I was oblivious to it all. It was not until Graham told me what happened that I realized it, and that was when he was driving me back home.

As for ice women, let them be emotionally dead. I would rather be who I am than a user of other people.

Love you girl.

Kendra