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I was supposed to have a date today. I met a girl online and we have chatted and text for a few weeks. I was really looking forward to this date since I do not date much and she is a very attractive lady. I really liked her. Then Friday morning after I got home from work she sent me a text message saying that she could not go on the date, and that she had a boyfriend. Talk about a kick to the head. I text her back and told her that yes I was hurt by that and that I had been really looking forward to our date. Then I told her that Her new boyfriend should treat her well since she just passed on being with someone who would have treated her like a queen.
later she text me back saying that that now things dont seem right. The guy lives to far away, he's rushing things, wants to commit to quickly. Then she asks if I want to still go out.
ARE YOU FREAKING KIDDING ME???????????????????
I text her back saying that I AM NOT A YO YO. That I will not keep going back and forth. I said to her, you break off our date, tell me that you have a boyfriend and then you still want to go out. I told her that I'm not interested in games. I wanted something serious and she blew it.
She text me back asking why I have to be so mean.
She broke my heart. She can go to hell.
I can live with out sex. I want it, but I can live with out it. I just need contact. I just want someone to be there that I can touch and hold. Just to hold and know that someone cares about me. I feel like I'm starving to death without that contact. Maybe I should just buy a big teddy bear.
Jessica Marie
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I have it on good authority
I have it on good authority that bears are good listener's. At least my Pooh was and he's been around since 1973.
Upon my liar's chair
Full of broken thoughts
I cannot repair
Yeuch!
Pull the chain already! D:
She sounds like the typical user
String you along, expect you to be there for her when she needs something, then tell you to get lost the rest of the time. Its funny-sad how they seem so hurt when you object to that treatment. Those types love to lay the guilt trip on others, never feeling any of their own...
SuZie
SuZie
She might be playing a different game
20 years ago a girl I was interested in suddenly told me there was another guy, and she was going out on a date with him. I did something similar to what you did, and said if you're happier with him fine, I just want you to be happy. I later heard from a third party that she really did like me more, but that she wanted me to "prove" myself by vying for her affections. Had I pushed for her to continue to go out with me, she might still be with me today.
Her sudden turn-around might mean that she realizes you're better because you WON'T fight if it makes her happy. If you still want to try, tell her how hurt you were by what she did, and that you MIGHT take her back, but only if it's monogamous, and the moment another guy shows up you're gone.
happyness
As far as I'm concerned, she made a choice. She chose someone else. and after she pushed to go out. She made the choice now she has to live with it. We have been talking for a while and this was to be our first time going out. she wants to play games, fine. She can play them with someone else.
Jessica Marie
Dodged a bullet there
Anyone prepared to play games like that is best avoided. You were very fortunate.
not as think as i smart i am
She sounds young and the young have little clue sometimes.
Not to be insulting but young women now are very much about the drama. Given this site and the people here you've likely had enough drama in your life. Don't given up though because it can happen:)
*Big Hugs*
Bailey.
Bailey Summers
Jessica Marie, those dating games are
for shallow people. Hope you find one worthy of your love.
May Your Light Forever Shine
Stan Said It!
Relationships are all about honesty, and players of mind games are dishonest by definition. Sucks that it happened, but move on with your life and you'll be happier in the long run.
"Life is not measured by the breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.”
George Carlin
one more vote for a teddy bear
Or a dog. Dogs are very loyal, great at listening, and they sometimes let you cuddle them.