High School Curriculum

My son, Max (not his real name), will be starting at the high school next year. Therefore, they are starting to send materials home and have assemblies to discuss what things will be like for them next year. Today, they got the Curriculum Guide at an assembly. Max was excitedly showing my wife the extracurricular activities available to him next year: freshman soccer, jr. varsity volleyball and the chess club are the three he has circled as "must-do's". And he had crossed out, as "must not do", the Gay/Straight Alliance and the International Thespian Society. Before my wife got a good look at this list, he was going on about how "cruel" these two groups are.

My wife and I have raised Max in what I suspect is an unusually liberal household. We've taught him to judge people on their own merits, and not on what category they are placed in. He has always responded to this as we would wish. So, it took her by surprise that he would find these organizations as "cruel".

First, she cleared up what a "thespian" is, since she suspected (correctly, it turns out) that he thought it meant "lesbian". We all had a good chuckle over this.

Second, she had him clarify why the Gay/Straight Alliance was cruel. It took a few minutes, but he finally told her it was because that labeled the gay kids as "different", which is cruel. (I have visions of him thinking of the symbols the Nazi's made the gays wear.) Once she explained to him that clubs like this are a support system for helping the gay kids, he calmed down and agreed that it was a good thing.

Then, he pointed out the ERASE club (End Racism and Sexism) as another worthwhile club he was considering. She dragged him into see me and announced, "We're raising an activist!" (My response, btw, was, "Cool!")

I'm proud of my kid's attitudes to those who are different than him.

Hugs,

Kristy

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