The shopping season

Christmas and Valentine’s Day are two times a year to easily shop for your alter ego with no questions and minimal apprehension. Take advantage of it.

Christmas is when you can shop for your personal indulgences with minimal apprehension because you’re buying a “gift” for a “friend” or spouse. Buy a “gift” for your femme self. The upside is that after the holidays you can easily return the items. Get a gift receipt if needed. Splurge a bit and enjoy yourself. Get answers to those nagging internal questions. See if that skirt or dress looks good on you, see if a certain type of earring is flattering or a lipstick color compliments you.

We all like a reminder of our special “hobby” as we go thru the year. This reminder may be nail color on your toes, a light tinted lip gloss, longer than normal finger nail length, etc. I’m inclined to delicate anklets, panty hose and knee highs, pierced ear rings and of pretty lingerie worn under my shirts and pants. Camisoles, tap pants and nylon stockings can’t be easily detected. Yet possible detection is part of the thrill. Shaving your legs is also an adventure. It feels nice for a long time; a reminder of the special side of yourself.

Check your clothing sizes on line and convert waist size to dress size. Male shoe size to ladies shoe size. Do check with a couple of websites in order to get a more accurate idea of what size is best for you.
Bras: Although on paper I’m a 40-42 C I prefer the smallness (less material) of a 38 B and then use a bra extender for a better fit. I find larger bras are too much material with oversized cups. They don’t lay right (for me).

Nylons: Research your size and buy them a Target, Walmart, etc. During the holidays you’ll blend right into the crowd. No one will pay you any mind. If you don’t (or can’t shave your legs) wear two pair! It hides leg hair very well.

Cosmetics: I truly love the smell and taste of certain lipsticks. Revlon Moon Drops is my favorite. Check their web site and find a color that matches your complexion. Buy some ‘stocking stuffer’ lipsticks, nail polishes, eye makeup, etc for the New Year. They don’t cost too much and can be enjoyed for a long time. Be sure to get some removers and cleaners! I stay clear of any long lasting, hard to remove products as it make life easier.

Perfume: I have a tough time finding a subtle aroma that doesn’t scream ‘girly’ I want a semi neutral smell that doesn’t bust me or my hobby. I’ve settled on patchouli oil that can be perceived as either a male of female scent.

Clothing: This is your golden opportunity. Take advantage. Online shopping makes it easier for us but getting a correct size can be tough until you learn what fits and works for you. Google “garter belt” and check your options. Mail order makes returns less awkward. I have ordered a bra online and then returned it to a local store with no problems. Returns are expected this time of the year.

Make the most of the opportunity that the holidays afford you in being able to express your inner self.