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Today we rented Cloud Atlas.

I know, I'm a bit late to getting around to checking it out, but nevertheless, I was excited to check it out, given it's connection to our community and all, not to mention simply having heard good things about it.

One scene, however, was enough to ruin the experience for me.

Not because of the scene, mind you, but because of my mom's reaction to it.

Perhaps I should have looked up more information on the film or something, but (SPOILERS, sorta) near the beginning there is a scene where two men -- lovers -- wake up in bed with one another. Nothing more naughty than a naked bum and an affectionate kiss is seen, but nevertheless my mom's reaction was an "ohmigod!" and a following rant concerning what kind of movie I had rented us to watch.

This embarrassed me to no end, and ruined any chance I had of finishing the movie after that.

I get embarrassed very, VERY, easily, moreso around my family, and even moreso when it's honestly something I don't think should be embarrassing to me, if that makes sense. The scene was fine to me -- nothing particularly wrong with it, and I've watched enough LGBT cinema that it really was a non-issue regardless of my own orientation, which is shall we say "undecided." But my mom's reaction... it made me feel as though by not being bothered by it, I was somehow guilty or wrong, and that caused me no end of embarrassment.

It also, I might add, scares me about her reactions in the future should I ever bring home a boyfriend of my own, given that regardless of my gender presentation at the time I'm not altogether sure her reaction wouldn't be similar.

Does this kind of thing ever happen to anyone else here? One person's reaction, even outside of any reference to you or your own situation, being enough to cause you so much discomfort you simply can't deal with the situation any more?

Melanie E.

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