If people notice her looking, and she hasn't come out at work yet, people may get the wrong ideas. And some people, even if they get the right idea, might take it poorly anyways. Some people might get the wrong ideas and take it extremely well - but that could be just as dangerous.

I'm constantly worried that some homophobe will notice my unusual body shape, or the female underclothes I have to wear because mens don't fit below and my boobs need a bit of protection...

I'm also concerned about the sort who are predatory towards our kind for entirely different reasons.

While intellectually, I realize I probably have nothing to worry about, no one's likely to notice with the choice of slightly-too-large mens clothing I wear on the outside, emotionally it still worries me.

When I thought it was merely gynaecomastia, it didn't bother me to show my little a-cups about, but now that I know it runs deeper, and they've become b-cups, and become too sensitive to go without a bra for long... I have thought about being brave about it, but just haven't mustered up the courage.

No, I understand Jessica's concerns quite well.