Does Any Remeber these stories?

There was a story about a boy whose siblings were mentally handicapped and his mother and some of her friends girlified him

and there was another story, i think, which was quite long, where part of the story involved the male character as a child dressed in a taffeta gown at a birthday party... I know on this one I'm stretching because there are so many, but this piece was like 40 or 50 chapters long in 2006.

if anyone knows what I'm talking about, please drop me a line at terabiel at hotmail.com