what do people see when they look at me?

I often wonder what people see when they look at me.

For example, let me ask you a question.

If you were waiting by your dad's bedside in a hospital room, and an aunt came in with someone else in tow, and that someone else had a hairband, a pony tail, earrings, a purse, and visible breasts came in, but as far as you knew said aunt never had a daughter, would you say something? If not right away sometime in the next hour that said person was in the room watching your dad sleep?

Or would you do what my cousin did and say nothing whatsoever about my appearance?

I kinda wish he would have said something, so I could talk about it, but because he didn't I didnt bring it up either, so the whole issue sat there between us growing stale.

Ah, well