Earrings feel heavy

I mentioned earlier that I bought a pair of hoop earrings. The one thing I wasn't prepared for was how heavy they feel. It felt like my earlobes were about to drag on the ground. Is this normal? Do people get use to it? Maybe buying at Walmart wasn't the best idea. I want to get some that dangle, but I often temper things with not wanting to push the issue of gender with other people.

The other thing I notice is that I am getting tired of people calling me sir. It's not their fault. It's not like I'm even remotely trying to dress fem. I sort of dress neuter right now, which I guess is masculine. I mean, I'm not wearing plate mail or a hat with tits protruding from them. But every time I hear someone calling me sir I am starting to cringe. After the legal stuff figures itself out, I think I will start dressing more fem. It's just that right now I feel I will look like a guy in a dress and that's not what I'm going for. I've seen people in drag and a beard and that's just not right. Maybe electrolysis is in my future.