Mind vs body vs soul

I've always wondered about everyone's view on transexuality as it involves the behaviors of the transgendered individual. When I normally write my stories, I tend to not focus so much on the physical change of the individual as I do the mental change, for example. How much does your femininity (or masculinity) affect how you behave in your life.

I myself do classify myself as transgender, but I've never felt as if I needed to me "feminine." To me it's all about being comfortable. I don't feel "right" as a guy. But that doesn't mean my behaviors would really change if I were to be a girl. Sure I may add a few more "quirks" in my attitude as I continue through the journey, and maybe even try some things such as makeup and the occasional dress wearing, but ultimately I don't think I'd act a whole lot different than I am now.

So I'd like to hear your thoughts.