Having a crush

Well, color me overwhelmed. The response to the first chapter of "The Lucky One" was amazing, and I thank everyone who has left a comment, you made a middle-age lady very happy. But I have other concerns to share with you all. I sort of have a crush, and its driving me crazy. She works at the day care that my daughter attends, and not only is she pretty, she is kind, gentle, and super nice. She is like a warm fire on a cool night, just being near her makes me feel better about everything. But, there are a few problems with asking her out. First, i am assuming she is taken. (I am too scared to actually ask). 2ndly,there is the whole issue of my baggage. I am still officially tied to the ex, and between her, my daughter, and my work, i would have almost zero time to spare to be with anybody. Lastly, there is the other sensation i get when i am around her, a envy so great it's agony. I would gladly bite my member off to look like her for one day....
The end result is my usual, a painful puzzle of a situation that i am unlikely to resolve. Ah, well.