sleepless night caused by arousal?

Had a horrible night last night, and got no sleep. I am not sure how best to describe it, but its sort of like this: Imagine having the sex drive of a typical teenage boy, but instead of having a nightly fantasy of poking one's peter into the nearest available hole, there is a terrible emptiness the needs, craves, demands to be filled. I don't know if that's how genetic girls feel arousal, but that's how I experience it. The trouble is, that after such a wave of need hits, I am forced to remember that I don't actually have the equipment to be "filled", and that makes the whole thing an agonizing torture, and I start to shake and cry. I wonder how much longer I can endure it.