A little confused.

I don't want to whine. It is just confusing how life goes some times.

I don't do bars, dope, steal, or stalk anyone. I live in a little apartment, own a little car, go to Prayer on Friday, and help anyone who asks me if I can. So, no drama if I can help it. I don't drink or do Pot. Not that I am so holy; I am just a boring person.

There is a College girl from Saudi Arabia who often asks me for help, but suddenly developed a problem with my gender presentation after knowing me for about six months. I have full accnowlegement in my faith. Yet, she is just sure that I am going to hell, and has caused me a lot of emotional pain. I don't agree with her and have said so many times.

She seems to lack any social competence at all; a fact that I had just struck up to being raised in a very messed up place and treated like a bird in a gilded cage all her life. I made allowances for her. After all, she lives in civilization, and even feril children have shown some adaptability.

So now, she is having this big emotional crisis about not being in contact with me. For her, it is a big event in her stilted little life, she is what 20? For me, I have been down this road enough that, yeah OK lets get on with it, what ever. My blood presure has not gone up a bit over it. By the way she acts, I am beginning to suspect Aspergers or something in her.

Someone please kick my ass if this does not make sense. So where do I stop being a friend and become a care giver, or should I just walk away from this fruit loop? By nature I am gentle, and it is hard for me to just turn my back on someone in trouble. Maybe I just have poor boundaries.

Much Peace

Khadijah Gwen