Feeling left out

I am feeling really left out lately. You see most of my friends are from the transgendered community or the geek community , and lately I feel left out in most situations.

With my friends from the geek community I feel OK , they seem to accept me and while I can't speak with them on everything ( the all transition thing for example ) it seems like they are there for me .

With my friends from the trans community I feel left out ( and sometime judged ) because of sexual orientation.
You see by some weird twist of fate it happened that about 95% of the trans girl I am friend with /know off are of an opposite sexual orientation. The problem is that I can't speak about my romantic life ( or the complete lack of it :) ) with them since most of them just ignore this subject /say they can't help , some of them even go as far as to delegitimize my orientation . What makes me feel more left out is that they try to help another friend deal with the same problem just from the opposite side, I mean its not like its that matter that much that they can't even help me when I feel lonely or something.

Reading this post I know it doesn't put my friends in a positive light but they are good friends. I mean they help me with other problems but when this problem rises they just ignore (once someone told me that I "should just find a straight women to talk about this issues and leave them alone already" :( ).

I am at a complete loss as to what to do. I mean I don't make friends that easy and I would it for this issue to ruin my friendship with them.

P.S

I wanted to write more about it but in mid post I found myself getting too depressed to continue :(